“Well there was a boy that my daughter was seeing. He was bad news. Into drugs/drinking and always picking fights. I was able to guide my conversations with my child in a direction I knew she could relate her relationship with this boy.
I noticed he was being very controlling by telling her whom to talk with and who could be her friend. Saying things like he would kill himself if he could not be her bf.
I saw how he treated other girls in an abusive manner online. I was able to connect with my daughter having unknown knowledge of his abusive behaviors and then counter by educating her on how to recognize emotionally abusive boys who are likely to become physically abusive.
I directed her to web sites, which explain how to identify abusive personalities and behaviors. Turns out he had several of those personality traits and behaviors. I told her I did not want her to learn this was normal to a relationship and learn to be an abusive girlfriend by doing what he does and thinking is normal.
After recognition of the facts the blinders were lifted from her eyes and she saw him for what he really was an abusive bf. She dumped him that day. This would not have been possible without PC Tattletale.
The best advice I can give is not to tell your child about it. Some reviews I read said they told their kids and now they do not view the sites their not suppose to visit. They will visit those sites on other kids computers or at the library.
If the kids know about it you are wasting your money. The idea behind this product is to have inside information, which you can not get if the kids know about your abilities.
I have my daughter convinced I can tell when she is lying just by looking at her because of PC tattletale. Respect your kid’s privacy when they move out. This is must have software if you have teenagers.”
Chad Gillette, Iowa
